Push the Botton

"Woman should be grateful for the despair of unattached men, for it is the foundation of future loyalty and selflessness - another reason, perhaps, to be suspicious of romantically successful types, whose charms have left then unacquainted with the tragicomic process of aching for days for a woman they were too shy to address and who stepped off at the next station leaving behind a carton of apple juice and plans for marriage."

"On seeing an noticing" - Alain de Botton